Journey.Steps

Everyone says step out of your comfort zone. What does it actually means ? and how ?

Our mind is shaped throughout the entire childhood with our parents, our teachers, our mentors, or friends. Sometime you hear or see something that is beyond your believe system, and your brain would keep you safe by telling you "that is dangerous, do not approach ! I repeat, dangerous do no approach !"

There is "terror barrier" that exists in your mind in order to keep you safe from all the time. If you ask me to put it into a layman way, maybe I call it " threat database" ? This database has collected millions of informations for the past 20 years ? 25 years ? of your life, therefore whenever you see something that is way beyond of your believe system, your mind would automatically shut down to prevent the attack.

But ! the terror barrier isn't everything that you know, it just a system to keep you safe from what the brain is known. For the things that our brain "don't know", it also tell you that is dangerous, do not try. That is why people stay where they are, because they listen to their mind and let it control them.

"WE" as a human being possess the most valuable among all the living things- the"consciousness"

Control your mind, not letting your mind to control you. Each time when you hear something new, and you want it,  but you have doubt, that is the time you need to recognise that your terror barrie is functioning, and what to do is, you are gonna to break through the paradigm by going against what the mind tell you. Go against it and make a different decision! That decision is gonna to lead you to another life that you couldn't ever imagine.

What makes a different between a successful people and an ordinary man ? Most of the successful people make quick decision by going against their terror barrier, when they do this often, they possess an ability to see things differently.

I must highlight this is not asking you to make decisions impulsively, and recklessly but take calculative risk. Each time you go against your paradigm, you allow your mind to open a door for something new.

I hope you grasp something today =)

Success is like the path in snow, each steps show

My country,MALAYSIA

While on the way to KLCC, our mode of transportation was KTM & LRT. When I was standing on the escalator, I saw his poster on side of the opposite escalator, and I look around the busy tunnel where everyone was rushing for their own living. It touches me a little and the sudden thought of my heart which I can't really put it into words. It was like ....erm. I was suddenly feeling compassionate, empathy for every Malaysian, and I was sincerely begging him, be the hero once to save Malaysia when he still can, this feeling of my heart while looking at his portray was so weird and  never can be described. 

Probably most of the people in your circle having personal comments toward him, critic him, hate him, loath him or whatsoever, but I strongly believe when he is standing in front of you. All your hatred would disappear or maybe you are just too afraid to show. Why ? Because you are honour to meet him and that honour masks everything up. What I wanna to say is, he is the prime minister of Malaysia, he can't please everyone, I am not saying he is perfect but what he did for Malaysia lately are undeniable. Politics aren't that easy for the public to understand unless you are part of it. Otherwise, we are just the rumourmongers who help to incite the society gone horrible awry. 

Every countries' citizens are unhappy with their government including the citizens in Singapore. But the situation in Malaysia was so different. If everyone work together, stay put and fight together with this country, Malaysia will be a very powerful country. But ONE THING a lot of the morons still believe only in people who shared the same skin colour with them. Malay & Malay, Chinese & Chinese, Indian & Indian, with this, we could never success! 

Don't ask what the country can do for you, ask yourself have you done your responsibility as a citizen, have you learn enough for an open heart to accept how the country is ? We are Malaysian, no longer Chinese from China, no longer Indian from India, indeed our ancestor came from China but then if you ever want to go back China to ask for citizenship, China will kick your ass! Your are Malaysian regardless of your race ! Don't blame Malaysia, don't blame government , blame our culture..... Our culture sucks! 

He could do better, Malaysia can be better, our life can better, it just need our help. IF every MALAYSIAN learns. 

HOW TO DEALING WITH EX?

How most people deal with their ex ?

A lot of couple breaks up for a reason, well, for the one who try to stay, always the reluctant one to leave.

If one day, your ex returns with a reason or whatever that is...what will you do ?

The person who hurts you the most now had finally come back...

The person you want them back so badly until he/she cracks you...

The person who leave without mercy...

The person who come back just like that...

whatever the reason is, I am still believing that two person should never interact again.

We are not machine, a face, feeling, words, affection, sympathy, so on and so forth would change us. Those elements bring us back to the situation that we fought so hard to let go.

No matter how good your ex is..

No matter how deep you used to love..

once they are gone, they lost the ticket to return. Conversely, look at the one who sleep beside you right now, think about those days you were miserably sad, think about those days you upset with everything like a wreck, think about those lonely nights, who are the one going through everything with you ? This person beside you made you a better human, and what ? return to ur ex ? that's sound awesome to me =)

Every relationship encounter hardship. Let me share a story that I read

There are creatures having EQ less than 50 living among us. They can mad with no reason, sometime even worse...They throw things, slam the door, scold everyone around, drive speedy late night, vulgar words flying over.. Well, for that moment, they are completely lost their mind without the need to ask.

For everything above is still tolerable, but solving problem by " breaking Up" is not.

The story goes like this:

A couple fight tooth and nail one night, they quarrel with extremely bad attitude. At the end, both of them decided to break up to end this war.

Girl said : the tv is mine, air cond is mine, as well as the shoes rack. I will leave with the things I bought.

The guy took a depth breath and look at her said :

-This house I give you

" for free"

-accompany you, taking care of you, wait you from work, also give you

" for free"

-you love to shopping, I bring you to everywhere you like,  also give you

" for free"

-cloths that i gift you, gifts, and all the things that I bought for your happiness smile, also give you

" for free"

-those emotions that I rose together with you whenever you are sad, you are nervous, I also give you "for free"

-those worrying emotion, scare, insecure whenever I can't find you, I also give you

" for free "

-occasionally, I smile because of your happiness, because of your sweet concern, I also give you

" for free "

-All the love that I promise you, all the love that I feel, all free

the girl drops her tears ....

this couple hug each other, they kept away their hard face by looking at each other gently, keeping the bad attitude far far away so it will never hurts your love one again.

This is life, if you cannot go through this or give up without trying... this problem is within you, no matter who you are dealing with, the ending story still pretty much the same. Whereas, if you learn how to change yourself to become better, you may live your story better. A lot of people blame the people they met, but they never think about the real bug actually existing inside them.