How most people deal with their ex ?
A lot of couple breaks up for a reason, well, for the one who try to stay, always the reluctant one to leave.
If one day, your ex returns with a reason or whatever that is...what will you do ?
The person who hurts you the most now had finally come back...
The person you want them back so badly until he/she cracks you...
The person who leave without mercy...
The person who come back just like that...
whatever the reason is, I am still believing that two person should never interact again.
We are not machine, a face, feeling, words, affection, sympathy, so on and so forth would change us. Those elements bring us back to the situation that we fought so hard to let go.
No matter how good your ex is..
No matter how deep you used to love..
once they are gone, they lost the ticket to return. Conversely, look at the one who sleep beside you right now, think about those days you were miserably sad, think about those days you upset with everything like a wreck, think about those lonely nights, who are the one going through everything with you ? This person beside you made you a better human, and what ? return to ur ex ? that's sound awesome to me =)
Every relationship encounter hardship. Let me share a story that I read
There are creatures having EQ less than 50 living among us. They can mad with no reason, sometime even worse...They throw things, slam the door, scold everyone around, drive speedy late night, vulgar words flying over.. Well, for that moment, they are completely lost their mind without the need to ask.
For everything above is still tolerable, but solving problem by " breaking Up" is not.
The story goes like this:
A couple fight tooth and nail one night, they quarrel with extremely bad attitude. At the end, both of them decided to break up to end this war.
Girl said : the tv is mine, air cond is mine, as well as the shoes rack. I will leave with the things I bought.
The guy took a depth breath and look at her said :
-This house I give you
" for free"
-accompany you, taking care of you, wait you from work, also give you
" for free"
-you love to shopping, I bring you to everywhere you like, also give you
" for free"
-cloths that i gift you, gifts, and all the things that I bought for your happiness smile, also give you
" for free"
-those emotions that I rose together with you whenever you are sad, you are nervous, I also give you "for free"
-those worrying emotion, scare, insecure whenever I can't find you, I also give you
" for free "
-occasionally, I smile because of your happiness, because of your sweet concern, I also give you
" for free "
-All the love that I promise you, all the love that I feel, all free
the girl drops her tears ....
this couple hug each other, they kept away their hard face by looking at each other gently, keeping the bad attitude far far away so it will never hurts your love one again.
This is life, if you cannot go through this or give up without trying... this problem is within you, no matter who you are dealing with, the ending story still pretty much the same. Whereas, if you learn how to change yourself to become better, you may live your story better. A lot of people blame the people they met, but they never think about the real bug actually existing inside them.
